Going Back to Work

  1. Making a flexible working request

     

    What is flexible working? 

    Flexible working is a pattern of work which is adapted to suit an employee’s needs and which can be accommodated within the employer’s business requirements.  Flexible working involves three main types of change to an employee’s work pattern:

    • Change to the times during which the work is carried out
    • Change to the place from where the work is mainly carried out
    • Change to work tools and systems e.g. use of laptop, mobile phone and communications software

     

    Some common types of flexible working

    • Part-time working – employees are contracted to work less than full time hours.  
    • Flexi-time – allows an employee to choose...
  2. Childcare choices

    The options

    There are different types of childcare available, you need to go over all the options and decide which form will work the best for you and your child’s needs.

    • Childminders: self-employed childcarers who will look after your child, as well as other children, probably in their own home
    • Day nurseries: provide care and education for children aged from six weeks up to five years old.
    • Nannies: employed by you, and look after your children in your home.
    • Nursery schools and classes: provide early education, from ages three to five years. These placements can be full-time or half-day sessions.
    • Playgroups: a not-for...
  3. Childcare

    Whether you’re returning to work, starting a course or just feel its time for them to interact with other children, finding suitable childcare for your children is going to be a big decision for you, and one which depends on your family’s personal needs and circumstances.

    The options

    There are different types of childcare available, you need to go over all the options and decide which form will work the best for you and your child’s needs.

    • Childminders: self-employed childcarers who will look after your child, as well as other children, probably in their own home.
    • Day nurseries: provide care and education for children aged from six weeks up to five years old.
    • Nannies: employed by you, and...
  4. Support when family can't help

    It’s understandable for a parent to lean on their family and friends for emotional support and practical help with childcare arrangements. We all need extra support and help from our families from time to time.  However for many of us being able to turn to our parents, or extended family, is not always an option. Living far away from our parents or siblings, can make us feel isolated and unsure where or who to turn to. The pressure you may feel might be overwhelming and Family Lives can understand this.  We are here to support you and would encourage you to speak to one of our family support workers on Live Chat, Email Support or...

  5. Going back to work

    As well as the practical concerns connected with returning to work, such as what financial assistance you may be entitled to, how flexible your employer is with time off when you need to stay home with your flu-ridden child etc – you may also be thinking about how you will manage with spending less time with your child. The time you do spend with your family can often be filled with lots of time-consuming activities such as cooking dinner, bathing the kids and getting them to bed on time. Try to introduce routines and delegate responsibilities to all family members old enough to help, this way you can save time and spend it doing something enjoyable with your children, from reading them that bedtime story, through to just having a cuddle at the end of a long and hectic day. Employees...

  6. Balancing work and home

    Woman arriving home from work

    Being a parent, managing a job, maintaining a home and having some sort of social life for yourself means that there are never enough hours in the day.

    It’s not easy balancing work and home but how you manage can make quite a difference to your relationship with your family. There are pros and cons to every option. If you are employed full-time or part-time, you may:

    • Have a better standard of living and have fewer money problems.
    • Feel pleased you're making a contribution and have more self esteem.
    • Have friends and a social life outside the home.

    But you may also feel:

    • Overwhelmed with too much work and are missing out on family life.
    • That you're not there for your kids or your partner.
    • ...
  7. Work life balance

    Work life balance – something we hear a lot these days – is also something most parents really crave. Recent surveys reveal that many parents are eager to make changes so they can work more flexibly, even if it affects their pay, because they know that having time with their children is important.

    In reality though, getting the balance right is tricky. Truth is we work longer hours in this country than anyone else in Europe, so chances are when Britain’s parents finally arrive home they may not have the energy for a game of football in the park, or six rounds battling with the maths homework waiting on the kitchen table. Making changes at work by talking your hours through with your boss is a good step, but even if you can’t make big changes, or don’t want to,...

  8. Flexible working

    On Monday 6 April 2009, all parents of children aged 16, were given the right to ask their employer for flexible working arrangements.

    The rule extends legislation introduced in 2003, which allowed parents with children under six to request more family-friendly hours. It will mean that an additional 4.5 million employees will be eligible to request flexible working – that’s around 10 million overall.

    So what is flexible working? Flexible working is any working pattern that is adapted for the benefit of the individual and that also suits their employer. The types of flexible working include part-time, flexi-time, compressed hours, staggered hours, term time working, job sharing and working from home. Many employers already offer flexible working, but this new law means...

  9. Questions other parents have asked

    How much will childcare cost me?

    The average cost of a full-time nursery place for a child under two is £141 per week, and costs for children over two tend to be less. However, these costs can vary depending on areas, types of childcare etc. Some nurseries charge up to Ј350 per week.

    I’ve gone back to work - can I get help towards the cost of childcare?

    You may be eligible for financial assistance, through Tax Credits; contact the Tax Credit helpline on 0854 300 3900 to find out more. Some employers also have crиche or nursery places available, or may be able to help with childcare vouchers, view the Daycare Trust’s information sheet for further...