I would like any information at all please as I am at the end of my teather and don't know what where to turn. I have been a single parent since he was born and no father figure at all, only his gran.
My son is 8 years old and is very agressive,abusive and fowl spoken towards me and his gran (only us). I have had him at the Mental Health for child and adolencent group since he was 4 years old and they have told me in a phone call. That they can no longer see him as there is no potential signs of bad behaviour,ADHD or anything and that he is just a normal child.
At school he is very distracted and alwasy wanting to be in the middle of things (fights,arguments), but the school says they will keep an eye on things. It seems to have gotten worse since going back to school and I have asked him if he is getting bullied or has been put out the class and he says school is fine.
I am actually scared of my own son (its horrible to say that) as we could be happy one minute and the next minute he is hitting,or kicking me or swearing at me and if that hapens outside i cant do anything. Sometimes it has got that bad I have threatened him with sending him away and with the Police but I cant see myself doing that,as I love him. I put down ground rules and they are out the window within 15mins along with abusive behaviour.
I dont know where to turn or even just to speak to someone as it is getting out of hand.
From A reall confused and upset mum x