Proposals to reduce Maternity Leave to 18 weeks: How will this impact new parents?
Did you know that the Government are thinking of reducing maternity leave to 18 weeks? Working Families and Family Lives believe that six months matters for Mums to recover from birth and prepare to return to work.
Current law allows most women to return to work after two weeks, but the presumption is that women will take 52 weeks’ leave unless they tell employers they want to come back sooner. Under potential Government plans, the presumption will be 18 weeks of leave after which you will have to negotiate with your employer. They are campaigning for at minimum standard of 26 weeks (six months) of maternity leave for all women and want to know if six months matters/ed to you. They would welcome your contribution and experiences. They are asking questions such as:
- What do you remember as the best bit of maternity leave?
- When were you ready to organise childcare or negotiate working...
Coping with Relationship Breakdown
The strains of children on marriages, and indeed any relationship, are well documented. But most couples tend to think they’ll be able to cope, somehow. As with so many things in life, we all tend to believe the worst just won’t happen to us. I certainly did.
Following the tragic suicide of my father-in-law last year, the strain seems to have proved too much for my husband. I shan’t bore you with the detail, but after a Christmas affair and differences that don’t seem to be getting resolved, we have decided to separate. He has moved out, and I am left with a thousand questions, mostly about the children and how we go about any degree of normal life now.
What amazes me is the supportiveness of friends and family. I hope that anyone else in my situation is not too proud or ashamed to ask for help, because it seems that people are only too willing to give it. Offers of babysitting, visits and advice are all free-flowing, and I feel extremely lucky to have such...
News round-up from week ending Friday 13 April 2012
Record numbers of children being taken into care
Record numbers of children are being taken into care because of what’s been dubbed “The Baby P Effect” where the tightening of procedures since the death of 17-month Peter Connelly has seen care applications rocket.
The Sun newspaper reports how 886 applications were made last month, bringing the total number of care applications from councils in England to 10,199 in the past 12 months, according to figures from the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service.
Meanwhile, The Independent looks at the same story but concentrates on how the foster care system is buckling because of the staggering applications for care. It says...
Anti-Bullying Posters created by Annalise
Annalise created these four posters for her A Level exam in Graphic Design. The posters are her creations and focused on her thoughts about bullying and how it makes a person feel. She says 'My main inspiration for creating these posters was past experience, I grew up having to deal with the issue of bullying and by standing tall and smiling over the situation has made me the strong person I am today. I hate to see people going through bullying, feeling different and like the ‘odd one out’, this is why for my A-Level Graphics exam I chose to illustrate the issue of feeling left out in different ways.'
By Annalise Armstrong-Bednall, Year 12 Student
"I am" poem by Laura from Bullying UK
“I Am” has become one of the world’s best known poems about Bullying, featured in awareness campaigns and translated into many languages around the world. What many people don’t know is the history behind the poem.
Written by Laura and donated to BullyingUK over 10 years ago, the poem came out of one person’s frustration with bullying and helpless feeling of isolation many young people encounter.
You may remember it from an anti-bullying film with lots of celebrities like Sharon Osborne and Rio Ferdinand narrating the words. Here is Laura’s poem in its original form taken from the original email.
I Am – By Laura
I am the person you bullied at school,
I am the person who didn’t know how to be cool,
I am the person you alienated,
I am the person you ridiculed and hated.
I am the person who sat on her own,
I am the person who walked home alone,
I am the person you scared every...
Bullying by Sally Snow
Bullying can take place in many different forms; physical bullying such as hitting and kicking, psychological bullying such as name calling and cyber bullying such as abusive and threatening texts or emails. A lot of people would argue that physical bullying is the most harmful because you can visibly see what a person has done to someone but I would disagree. I think that psychological bullying is the worst form of bullying as it usually scars a person on the inside and often the names they are called stick with them forever whereas wounds heal. Recently on channel 5 Jodie Marsh uncovered her story on being bullied as a child and visited her old primary school in which this happened. She interviewed various children at the school who were being bullied and actually found that the children being bullied said the psychological part was the worst.
I began being bullied at the age of 14 years by my 'best friend'. She was...
FAMILY SKILLS PROJECT
Want your family to be more of a winning team?
National Children’s Football Alliance, Family Lives and Arsenal Football Club invites your family to a week of free morning fun activities starting:
MONDAY 2ND to THURSDAY 6TH April 10.15am – 1pm
Activities include: Sessions for parents and kids on team work and improving communication; football coaching sessions by qualified coaches; tour of Arsenal’s Emirates Stadium; tour of the Arsenal museum; fun football matches for parents and kids aged 5 - 12 years
FAMILY SKILLS IS FUN, FREE & A WINNER!!!
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Happy International Women's Day!
Happy International Women’s Day to every woman and girl today! As women’s roles have changed within families over generations, one thing remains steady: that women – as mums, daughters, sisters, cousins, grandmothers, aunts, friends and carers – are pivotal to making society function. And they need a little appreciation sometimes!
While today, March 8, marks a global day to celebrate the economic, political and social achievements of women past, present and future, women across the world still have to battle inequality and indignity.
Women often work for low or minimum wages to keep their families fed. Or they’ll be the first to go without if times are tough. Mums can take the brunt of a teenager’s frustration. And young women, struggling with images of “beautiful” and skinny bodies, can feel far from celebrating their own womanhood.
So this 101st International Women's...
blog, celebrate, day, family, International, WomenHOW CAN WE STOP OLDER PEOPLE BEING TREATED LIKE A NUISANCE?
We’ve all seen the documentaries: older people in care homes being ranted at, festering in soiled pants, being ignored and neglected… How could nurses – those angels – we fume, allow this to happen? How can hospitals and care home managers be allowed to treat our relatives with such indignity?
Today’s draft report of the Commission on Dignity in Care says that a massive shake-up of the criteria used to select and appraise staff is needed, focussing as much on their ability to empathise and engage with older people as well as their formal qualifications. Read the BBC’s take on it here ...
GCSE Mocks The Fallout
A fresh batch of 15 and 16 year old pupils across the country has just completed mock GCSEs. Manda Barnes, director of curriculum at TLC Education Group, considers what parents should do if the results aren’t quite what they expected.
Mock GCSEs are always a time of high stress and anxiety for teenagers. Not only are they battling with their first major academic exams but they also have hormones to contend with and young adulthood to live up to.
These practice exams are designed to be like the real thing so expect your child’s teacher to take them very seriously. They allow the child a flavour of what’s to come in six months time when the real exams roll around, and they also help the school identify potential areas of weakness.
It’s important to use the results of the mocks as a constructive tool to help your child with the real exams....


